Women Scorned

I have a friend who once told me, " Everyone needs to or will get their heart broken at least once in their life." I said, "no dude, I think that's preventable and bla bla..." until the day I got my feelings hurt. Now I wasn't ALL IN with this guy who "broke my heart", because if you've seen my previous post, I believe in protecting mine. So although I cared deeply for him, possibly even loved him,  I never gave him all of me. My heart wasn't his to protect and keep. He was not my husband and God had not joined us together. The pieces I had to put together when he left weren't as tiny because I held onto them throughout our "situationship". It didn't take as long to piece myself back together because I forced myself to tread carefully and lookout for reg flags, rather than ignore WARNING SIGNS. But the truth in all of that scenario was that my friend turned out to be right. Everyone gets their heart broken, and honestly we can all choose to allow bad break ups to make us better.

What leads me to write this post today is the fact that my above scenario isn't everyone's story, and as I continue to date my eyes continue to open to new information and insight. Sometimes we fail to guard our heart like Jesus asks us to, and the outcome isn't like my scenario above. Sometimes we just simply mess up, and the situation we put ourselves in gets messy and ridiculous. Jesus doesn't mind mending the pieces. He is just that kind and loving. So I want to talk about what to do when you're a woman scorned.

You feel guilty.
Angry.
Bitter.
Wounded.
Hurt.
Sad.
Sick.
maybe...still in love

These are ALL normal, but you can't stay stuck in these emotions. They will weigh you down. Feel them, talk about it with God, then let it GO. LET NO MAN/WOMAN have power over you and how you feel. You've got to renew your mind and ask God for the help when you know you're stuck on stupid and can't give up one someone that's bad for you. HE WILL HELP YOU. I just want to encourage you to recieve and pursue your healing, because when God reveals the one he has for you, I want you to be ready. I did NOT say PERFECT but ready.

love you.
Gabs